The prompts
30 prompts to get you started
These prompts help you step back and observe your anxiety patterns instead of being swept up in them.
Describe what anxiety feels like in your body right now. Where do you feel it? What does it feel like -- tight, buzzy, heavy?
beginnerStart from the top of your head and scan downward. Name each sensation without judging it. This builds body awareness, which is the first step to managing anxiety.
What are the top 3 things making you anxious today? For each one, write whether it is something you can control or something you cannot.
beginnerThis is not about solving anything yet. Just sorting your worries into 'in my control' and 'not in my control' can immediately reduce the mental clutter.
Think about the last time your anxiety spiked. What happened right before it? Who were you with? What were you doing?
intermediateYou are detective mode here -- look for patterns. Maybe it always happens before meetings, or after scrolling Instagram, or when Mummy calls about marriage prospects.
Write a letter to your anxiety as if it were a person. What would you say to it? What would you ask it?
intermediateThis might feel strange but it helps externalize anxiety so it feels less like 'you' and more like something visiting you. Be honest -- you can be angry, curious, or even kind.
What does your anxiety tell you will happen vs. what usually actually happens? Write about three recent examples.
deep-diveAnxiety is a terrible fortune-teller. Comparing its predictions to reality helps your brain build evidence that the worst case rarely comes true.
How has your relationship with anxiety changed over the years? What did it look like in school vs. college vs. now?
deep-diveTrace the evolution. You might discover that your anxiety has shifted targets but uses the same tactics. This big-picture view can be really empowering.
