The prompts
30 prompts to get you started
Get to know the voice that tells you that you are not enough -- and learn to talk back.
What is your inner critic saying to you right now? Write down its exact words without softening them.
beginnerSeeing the cruel things you say to yourself written out in black and white is shocking. Would you say these things to a friend? Probably not. Name the critic so you can start separating it from your real voice.
Write about one thing you did well this week. It does not have to be big -- even getting through a tough day counts.
beginnerSelf-doubt erases your wins from memory. Force yourself to find one, even if the critic says it does not count. It counts. Write it down and let it exist.
When did your self-doubt start? Can you trace it back to a specific comment, event, or period in your life?
intermediateMaybe it was a teacher's remark, a comparison to a sibling, or a failure that hit hard. Understanding the origin helps you see that self-doubt is learned -- not truth.
If your inner critic were a person, what would they look like? What is their tone? Now write a response to them from your wisest self.
intermediateExternalising the critic makes it easier to argue with. Your wisest self has perspective the critic lacks. Let them have a conversation on paper.
What would your life look like if you truly believed you were enough? How would your choices, career, and relationships change?
deep-diveThis is a big question. Let yourself dream without the critic's commentary. The gap between this vision and your current reality shows you exactly how much self-doubt is costing you.
Write about the double standards in your self-evaluation. What do you forgive in others but punish in yourself?
deep-diveWe give others grace and hold ourselves to impossible standards. Write about specific examples. Seeing the hypocrisy clearly makes it harder to maintain.
